DISQUS

Sukhjit: Grrr. I’m giving up coffee. Really.

  • LossAngeles · 4 months ago
    I just watched the stairs video. That's much harder than it looks isn't it !! All my LA friends are lazy and I'm usually hiking alone !!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Yes, the stairs were hard. Especially the steeper part... but that's what it's all about. I was kind of amazed at the people who ran the entire thing over and over again. I walked it about 4 times, stopping here and there to record, but my heart rate was up.

    I certainly love the SF hills. They are a pain, but worth it... especially when there are views around every corner. Thanks for the comment today! Hope you are well. --sukhjit
  • LossAngeles · 4 months ago
    On those stairs and people going up and down...actually I noticed some
    of them in your video and think I should warn you..... and shhhhh mums
    the word ...(they aren't real people they are mutants from another
    planet so BE CAREFUL !!!!!)........
  • boronali · 4 months ago
    Anyway, American Coffee is terrible ! You won't be missing a lot ! !

    Keep it up ! Whish you success ! !

    (I used to stop coffee and replaced it by strong rooibos (red tea) or even black smoked russian tea. Pretty much helpful !)
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Yeah, I'm going to search for a good green tea or mate. I think American coffee in general has been bad. Now the coffee culture has made it change a bit. In San Francisco there is a love for good espresso and coffee beyond Starbucks and things like that. There are some excellent roasters and cafes. I just think it's time for me to break some old habits and I'm starting with my biggest!

    Thanks for the support Emilio. =) Wish I could leave you a video response, but it's still not working.
  • boronali · 4 months ago
    Damm ! A real argentine Mate ! ! ! Big business ! ! That's stronger than coffee ! !

    Having a "real" coffee in the US remembers me that nice european-like café I've found down Boston were customers were "savouring" a cup of "Expwessoh !" - So snob ! !

    And what about "chicory" ?
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Yes, the alternatives are plenty.. and since I was stuck on one thing, I didn't try anything new. Time for new adventures! Not sure about chicory... will read about it... but from the little bit I'm seeing, I can not imagine it being a coffee substitute? I'll give it a try.

    By the way, even without the video I can picture you making fun of the American's you met! I'm glad we American's are a good source of humor for other parts of the world! It's good to make people smile.. that being said, can't judge a country by one town. When you come to SF I'll show you the places I like... not that people are snobby about the coffee drinking.. it's more that there is a true appreciation for making it good and doing it right. --sukhjit
  • boronali · 4 months ago
    I've always been respectful with the Americans (and will always be), just like any other people, except for the French who truly piss me off 'cause ... they remind me I'm french ! !

    That's true that you cannot know a country from one of his cities and in your lovely little country, i lived mainly on the east coast (btw NYC coffee is what we call here "sock's juice"). But i'll soon take my pilgrim stick again to go and bless west coast with my holy presence ! And I'll be honored to by guided by you to go and drink ... well ... a soda ?
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Emilio! If you come to the West Coast this month, I'll be drinking water and... um soy milk! But if you come here any other time I'll be back in business (in moderation) and I promise to make sure you see places that you will enjoy... that means no "sock juice".

    I went to a conference last year and one of the panel discussions was about why so many startups come to San Francisco and the Silicon Valley. The consensus was that one of the many factors wast the appreciation for good food and drink here. Of course it's different from the European epicurean experience but fantastic none the less.

    When are you coming? =)
  • boronali · 4 months ago
    Think you got plenty of times to shape a guided tour schedule. Planning to come to West coast - i hope - during first semester of 2010 ...
  • Tellus · 4 months ago
    You can do it! I sometimes just have a cup of warm water. I think I'm going to cut back too or maybe get a smaller cup out in the morning.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    LOL! Frieda, you and I think so much alike! I'm on my 4th cup of hot water for the day! Thanks for the message my dear! --sukhjit
  • zaneology · 4 months ago
    Why oh Why? I love my daily Iced Coffee..It's all over my tweets and my blog/vlog..Speaking of....Did you see the SNL spoof on Celebrity Bloggers. It's soo funny. She's nothing like you...of course....but she is sipping on Iced Coffee! haha. So many of us on the caffeine that they include it in the skit. http://bit.ly/HAOe

    I hope to see you soon :)
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Zane!! You crack me up! Yeah, that skit is so funny. I'm watching it again. I could never understand why she sounds so nasally and out of breath. As for the coffee ban.. I just gotta do it. My morning ritual includes getting out of bed, going directly to the coffee maker then once it's done getting back in bed with coffee and laptop. My plan is to skip the coffee and laptop time and get some exercise instead. It's a lot to ask all at once, but I'm doin it! Nice to see a note from you Mama! --sukhjit
  • joec0914 · 4 months ago
    You poor baby. You look stressed already.
    This must be a new meme. My daughter gave it up, too. Are you having withdrawal headaches?

    Now Sukhjit, the challenge behind the challenge is not to increase your chocolate caffeine intake to compensate for the missing coffee. Nuh-uh... { wagging finger.. }

    Seriously, though, thanks for the heads-up. I will keep a low profile between the hours of 6 and 10 Pacific Time. :)
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    JOE! This is a moment I really wish I had video response! You put a big smile on my face... as for headache, none yet.. thought I did walk around dazed and confused for a big part of the morning! So how come your daughter is giving up coffee? Maybe we can be a support system for each other!

    Always glad to see a message from ya Joe! --sukhjit
  • Ohdoctah · 4 months ago
    I'm working on a personal project.. and i am going to share it with friends to keep me honest! Good luck with the no coffee thing.. you always have tea to fall back on!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Seriously, Owen.. telling people about something always forces me to do it. I think that's a good thing. Yeah, keep your eye on me and don't get mad if I'm a bit of a grump... though I can't imagine being a grump around you, you always make me happy. Can't wait to hang out with you soon! --sukhjit
  • davidhowell · 4 months ago
    Oh my...you looked like you were about to cry there for a sec!

    You're a better person than I. I couldn't give up my java.

    Be strong! Rooting you on from over here!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Thanks David! I'm surprised at how effected I am. I've obviously done without coffee before, but knowing it's a long term thing is making it a little harder. Also, I didn't make a big deal about it, but I decided minimize caffeine in general which means I'm axing tea and ... CHOCOLATE. It's true. Thanks for the message of support! Hey, BTW- have you put your kodak to use yet? Looking forward to some helmet cam footage! --sukhjit
  • davidhowell · 4 months ago
    Yes! I've put the Kodak to good use! I've been putting some scooter helmetcam videos up on my YouTube channel. It's here - http://www.youtube.com/davidhowellca
  • electromute · 4 months ago
    Sukhjit, you are brave to give up coffee. Good luck with it. Probably once you get through the first few days, you'll be just fine.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Hello My Friend! How are you? Yes, I'm doing it. Feeling like I'm inflicting unnecessary pain on myself and my friends... but I think it's just something I need to do right now... know what I mean? It's a cleanse.

    So, I'm glad you wrote cause I've been meaning to be in touch with you! Remember when I told you I'm coming to Denver? We'll I'm coming the 3rd week of August. Would be great to see you while I'm there. --sukhjit
  • electromute · 4 months ago
    I can't wait to see you! I think that may be the week of Master's National Track Championships in Colorado Springs. I stay in CS starting Tuesday night, the 18th through Sunday. When do you get in? Let's chat over email!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    I think it is that same weekend! Awww. Bummer. I knew I should have messaged you sooner. The wedding BTW is about 2 hours outside Denver so our time to hang out would have been crunched. I would love an update on you and your life.. do email me when you get some time. --sukhjit
  • rachaeljoy · 4 months ago
    wow! i would have never imagined this in a million years. i'm shocked! you look positively petrified in the video! but you can do it sukhjit! i support this cause! i love taking breaks from coffee. I know that doesn't mean much since I don't drink it regularly but I really feel so much better drinking tea. The highs and lows aren't as extreme and you feel healthier overall.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Coffee.
  • BigFreaky · 4 months ago
    Good Luck girl, I don't think you will have a problem. I have done the no caffeine thing before. Also the no soda thing, and earlier this year I did the Vegetarian Month. You are strong, you will pull through with flying colors, and make us all proud!!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Aww thanks! I like hearing about other people's experience too, so thanks for letting me know you've done this no caffeine thing before. I feel a little less crazy about it! Many people have reacted the opposite... wondering why on Earth I would give up coffee. I think I've actually been one of those people before. I don't believe in sacrificing the small pleasures in life.. but this time, I think it's a cleanse and also proving to myself that I can do this. --sukhjit
  • pogobrian · 4 months ago
    Sukhjit!! I have not had any coffee today, and have decided to join you on your valiant quest -

    One thing that really works for me is just a little ten minute yoga session when you roll outta the rack each morning... Energizing, centering, a great warm up, and crisp and clean - no caffeine.

    Course, I don't really drink coffee anyway - but I do grab a Zipfizz or a 5 Hour Energy on occasion. So I'll have to live without those.

    Who knew that we needed so many EXTERNAL energy sources!! I'm going to use the time to focus on my INTERNAL energy sources...

    And when I make it up to SF soon, I'm buying you a nice mocha choco triple latte super decaf non-coffee. :)

    PogoBrian
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Brian! Thank you for the support. Love that you are willing to "do without" along with me! When I have a weak moment, I'll remember that you're doing this too.. it will keep me motivated because I do not want to let you down!

    When are you coming to SF?! Let me know so I can make sure to be in town! So nice to see a comment from you PogoBrian. --sukhjit
  • ChazFrench · 4 months ago
    I've given up coffee a few times, once for close to a year. It's not that hard if you really want to do it.

    Good Luck!

    Chaz
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Chaz! Yes, I'm determined. I've also decided to stop eating as much meat as I have been. I guess I'm starting to lean more toward a vegetarian diet. Wonder if knowing you has something to do with that... I know am looking forward to more recipes from you. --sukhjit
  • ChazFrench · 4 months ago
    Oh that's funny, me, the dedicated omnivore has you leaning veg... I'm certainly eating less meat myself, and school is bound to lower that more, but I'll never call myself anything other than Omnivore. ;)

    Good luck with it all, and if you want the directions on that okra & tomato dish drop me an email.
  • disposablepal · 4 months ago
    i know that feeling, i gave up caffeine for 6 months last year. As someone who pretty much runs on Red Bull it was extremely hard, the first week was absolute torture. Good luck,
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Thanks Eric! Today was a surprising challenge. I've gone without coffee before, but not on purpose... so it's psychologically different, I guess. I didn't realize you'd given up caffeine before... why was it so hard.. I mean, I know why for me.. but I'm hoping that only lasts for a day or so.. what other challenges do I have ahead? --sukhjit
  • disposablepal · 4 months ago
    it was really tough for me because i pretty much drank nothing but caffeine drinks. some mornings i would mix a Red Bull with a Mountain Dew just to get started not to mention caffeine pills most days. after i quit i found myself feeling tired even after a full 8 hour sleep, even fought insomnia and headaches for a bit. i had built up a tolerance so a single cup of coffee was like drinking water to me. i doubt you'll have the same issues, a cup of coffee a day is actually pretty good for you, just dont fill up a Big Gulp cup with coffee like i did. Good Luck.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    I just had to tell you that I also gave up tea and chocolate for this month... so it's more than the cup of coffee a day. I didn't realize how much caffeine I had daily.. I just didn't pay attention.

    How are things with you? Still going to the gym as much? I'm turning up the dial on my workouts too. --sukhjit

    ps thanks for the retweet! =)
  • skyloaf · 4 months ago
    This is a ploy to get a year's supply of Peet's, I just know it!

    Good luck, Sukhjit. Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with coffee. But addictions are wrong. So I hope you can make it a month, and then find a happy medium.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Yes! That's what it's all about.. oh wait, no it's not about getting an unlimited supply of Peet's.. it's about breaking what some might call an addiction. I know I'll drink coffee again, I just don't want to be a daily slave to it... like I have been. It's kind of the start of breaking some bad habits I've developed over the last 8 or 10 months. But in any case it's awesome to get all the support! I love hearing the cheers from friends here! --sukhjit
  • Selina · 4 months ago
    Sukhjit! I too love my coffee and think about my morning cup the night before, and look forward to it. Cold turkey is tough, but I've done it, and you can too! Change/Shift your focus....do a morning bhangra boogie instead :)
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Bhangra boogie to replace my morning coffee fix?! Could work. Maybe I'll try that tomorrow morning. Funny, giving up coffee has certainly made me think about it a lot more today, but the truth is... day one is almost over and I'm feeling some empowerment! you are right about shifting my focus. Besides heath.. I'm also doing it to break some bad habits I've developed. Hey, thanks a million for the comment. I really appreciate your visit.
  • chaeseco · 4 months ago
    day 2? how's it going? I hope you're withdraw is going well. I find a nice hot shower always wakes me up.

    but don't make the mistake of swapping out your coffee for energy drinks! instead, have some fresh OJ and have a good healthy breakfast. if the body can't get a kick start, at least consume things that will let your body find the energy for you!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Oh my goodness. It has taken me forever to respond to your comment. I saw it and really wanted to leave a video.. but since I can't I just figured I'd show you how it's going via a proper vlog update. You can see I'm trying to find some good substitutions. It's been ok. This morning (the morning I did the video) I passed by so many coffee shops and cafes and it really was a challenge! The smell is mmmmm. I better stop talking about it.

    So, your tweets say your super busy these days Alan. That's good, right? You seem like someone who loves to be challenged and constantly working on something... however I can tell you are a bit tired too. Are you taking care of yourself, my friend? Don't make me worry about you! =) --sukhjit
  • chaeseco · 4 months ago
    Heh. I'm doing alright. Just busy. Early morning meetings, late night work elevations, then early morning activities with other projects. Then add allergies keeping me up at times. I'm not getting a lot of "me" time to sit around and rest. But, I'm alright.

    Don't worry! But thanks for the thought. Okay time to watch your new vid!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    You are awesome Alan! Ok, I'm gonna stop worrying about you.. but I do hope you take care of yourself. It's important. Are you using any video communities anymore? Would be nice to catch up with folks via vids, I just don't know where they are. It was not so bad with my video comments worked, but it's been a long time since they broke and now I'm feeling so disconnected from y'all. I need to see you all and video back. Boo.
  • chaeseco · 4 months ago
    Heh. Well, I'm not eating junk food. =) I'm just not sleeping as well as I should; allergies. Compress, that into a very busy work and life schedule and I have fewer chances to "sleep the day away"; to regain my balance. That's what I've been struggling with as of late. But, don't fret I will figure it out.

    As far as vid communities. I think they're all lacking focus, IMO. Seesmic had it just right for a short period of time. But, they just didn't have the proper architecture to support the growth. For a while now, I have been thinking I should build something more complete and scalable. But I don't have the personal time or energy. I did buy the DNS and I know my general plan for the look, feel and backend. Of course I will "crush it" with some mobile phone support and an API.

    You can always leave me private messages on TokBox. I check that from time to time.

    Well I'm glad you're hanging in there. I have to get back to work. Good to talk to you, even if it's not video. =(
  • thepete · 4 months ago
    I totally understand--I used to take a month away from any caffeine intake at all just to prove to myself I could do it. The last time I did it was 2007. The past couple years I just haven't wanted to put myself or Sierra through it. It's just too mean. So, good luck!!!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    You are mean without coffee! Oh, come on Pete! Well, actually I can understand. I don't think I've been the most pleasant person the last 5 days... but I've been blaming it on the full moon too! I just did a vlog update to this post so if you get a chance check it out. You can see for yourself my day 4 progress! =)

    Thanks for the comment! --sukhjit
  • Mark Cahill · 4 months ago
    I have decided to reduce my Coffee to once a week, as a treat, I started in July. I have used Yogi Detox tea as a substitute ( http://www.yogiproducts.com/products/details/de... ) but I drink a lot less of this than coffee. I have since found a big difference in my energy levels. I have also coupled this good habit with an increase in exercise. It is amazing what a few small changes can make.

    Best of luck with your new "Good Habits"

    Regards,
    Mark.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Mark! That's great. I really love hearing that other friends are trying this coffee free life too! I just updated this post with a vlog post about some of my new habits too. Exercise is at the top of the list. I also like Yogi teas! This month I'm staying away from all caffeine so tea and chocolate are out too. And to top it off I am not having alcohol. I know... but I wanted a challenge!

    I really appreciate your well wishes and I'm sending some back to you. Once this month is complete, I will go back to coffee, but I'll do it like you... occasional use. Do you have a particular day you drink coffee? Is it the same every week? Just curious. --sukhjit
  • LossAngeles · 4 months ago
    OMG why torture yourself have the coffee !! lol
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Hey! Thanks for leaving a comment on my site! I appreciate it.... as for the torture, really, I agree with you. I'm not normally one to cut things completely out of my life. I believe in balance and moderation (when I can) but I want to see some improvements in my health and energy and I decided to do something simple like give up caffeine... little did I know how much caffeine I have been consuming daily! Now that I am not having I'm aware of how imbalanced my diet has been. This has been a good challenge for me... it's not for everyone.. but I'm feeling good about it! (tortured but good!) Thanks again for the visit! --sukhjit
  • chaeseco · 4 months ago
    4 days! You can do it, I have faith in you!

    At least you realized your dependency and are trying something new. Most people never get to that enlightened place in their life.

    Keep it the good work!
  • christinielsen · 4 months ago
    Boo Hissery! I left a video response but I don't see it.
    Good luck Sukhjit! I just finished a 10 day detox cleanse. I know you can do this. :)
  • Japman · 4 months ago
    I watched Day 1 and Day 4, and it's already remarkable how you kind of looked worried about the idea in Day 1, and quite energetic -- or at least ready to tackle the adversity -- on Day 4.

    The headaches are really the worst part. I used to cheat by doing green tea, though as you know, that also has some caffeine in it. This was back when I actually needed to take a stand...back in the days of 4 large coffees/day. Now, i'm back to a small or a medium every day.

    Hang in there, and stay hydrated! You've got twitteran support!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    Thank you for the support and big giant thank you for taking the time to leave a comment here! That really makes my day. Yeah, thinking back to day 1 (which wasn't that long ago) I felt kind of confused but determined... I won't always have the time to go on a morning walk or to be so focused on my nutrition. To tell you the truth, I kind of wanted a challenge of some sorts that could shake me up and get me energized. We shall see if this does the trick. For now, getting so much great feedback from friends has made it better.

    Thanks again for coming to my site! --sukhjit
  • Jag · 4 months ago
    Hurray for you Sukhjit! Hope you are hanging in there and grumpiness-free.

    I also gave up drinking coffee a years cold turkey realizing as you have that it is more of an addiction. I've never missed it a bit. (Though I can't say the same for I will never give up tea/cha as that stuff is my blood. Never.) Thanks to your spinach drink video, I've started eating better ... had lots of spinach and broccoli over the weekend. And, I didn't buy any junk food. Simply if you don't buy it and bring it home you won't consume it.

    Show us a smile,
    - Jag

    p.s. I see you holding those coffee-making contraptions. LOL! We got many of those also sitting idle in our cupboards too.
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    @JAG Thanks for leaving a story. It's nice to hear about other people's coffee addiction breaking experience. I know I'll be drinking coffee again, I just don't plan to do it daily like I have been for..... years! Chai on the other hand is lifeblood for me too. Unfortunately, this month I won't be having any of that either. I'm pretty serious about this caffeine free month. I'm going to a big Indian wedding in a couple weeks and I know the chai is going to be everywhere. This is gonna test me!

    Yes, I had to hide all the coffee making devices so I wouldn't be tempted. =) --sukhjit
  • rachaeljoy · 4 months ago
    Well that view makes it all worth it, huh?! reminds me of my days taking the metro to work from DC to Bethesda and climbing the stairs out. It never seemed to get easier although it was always a spiritual experience: just take one step at a time. Anyway, I would love to climb SF stairs with you!! Keep it up! and up! and up!
  • sukhjit · 4 months ago
    @rachaeljoytv Thanks, my Friend. So, why don't you come for a visit then? ;-)
  • Japman · 4 months ago
    Not bad!!! Seven Days! Have you yelled at any old ladies or gotten any fits of roadrage as part of the withdrawal?

    Keep it up!
  • Japman · 4 months ago
    haha this was like a confessional.

    Forgive me, Twitter, for I have Sinned.

    It's good. it's a lil bit of guilt. You'll think of it the next time you feel tempted to take some cha or anything.

    You ever had the experience at an auntie's house where you reject a cookie for the sole reasont hat you just don't feel like having a cookie that day.... and they're like "vaat? you don't like cookies??".. i figure it was probably better to have a quarter cup of cha than to get a reputation as being "the xyz's daughter.. the one who doesn't like cha"

    Chin Up! 12 down, 18 to go. rip it up.

    and you will be happy to know that Godiva is having a 60% off sale. The packages must ship by October 2nd. so you should make a pre-order to celebrate your accomplishment :) (i can't tell if that will motivate you to get through the last 18 days or make it that much harder)
    http://bit.ly/p8fGV
  • sukhjit · 3 months ago
    Just reading your comment again! HI-larious! I'm actually going to be faced with that exact situation this weekend. Going to my cousin's wedding and there is going to be a LOT of temptation. On top of that I'm at my parent's house tonight and tomorrow morning there WILL BE cha! My Mom makes the best cha in the universe. It's the end of the road for my caffeine free month, but really the hardest part. Thanks for cheering me on! I really appreciate it! --sukhjit